Friday, 23 December 2016
Tuesday, 15 November 2016
When a woman is “tripping” she cares. When a woman is “mad” she believed in you and you let her down. When she’s “asking questions” she is trying to gain clarity. When she’s quiet and letting things “slide” she is giving up. And when she’s not doing any of the above just know you lost a good woman.
A pretty face gets old. A nice body will change. But a good woman will always b a good woman.
A GOOD WOMAN can only take so much. Don't underestimate her desire be happy even if it means moving on without you.
A real woman doesn't hate on another woman. She gives props and compliments instead of insults.
When a woman no longer gets frustrated and upset with you, you can almost guarantee that she doesn't care any more.
People
who have treated their partners badly over and over, they point out
that she/he no longer questions or complains and they think i’s because
their actions have finally been forgiven or just accepted and they are
now trusted. Not true – their partners have just given up and no longer
care. They stick around simply for kids, money – something. If your
actions/words no longer seem to affect a person, then they no longer
have the strong feelings towards you they once did. ~ Rhiannon Friend
“Laughter
and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself
prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning do to do afterward.”
~ Kurt Vonnegut
You've
done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities.
Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into
positive, effective, unstoppable determination. ~ Ralph Marston
If
the woman barking your important to her, but if she stop, then your
nothing anymore. You have no place in her heart. ~ Dolly Laudato
“I think... if it is true that
there are as many minds as there
are heads, then there are as many
kinds of love as there are hearts.”
― Leo Tolstoy
“No one knows for certain how much impact they have on the lives of other people. Oftentimes, we have no clue. Yet we push it just the same.”
― Jay Asher
Best
travellers know that each country has its own traditions and it is very
important to be aware and to consider them when you are travelling
abroad. Below are some travel mistakes people do abroad. Always remember
to research your travel destination before leaving.
France – Don’t talk or ask about money (asking about money is impolite in many countries, especially in France).
Ukraine – Don’t give even number of flowers (in most Slavic countries, people bring even number of flowers to the cemeteries).
New Zeland – Don’t honk otherwise you’ll insult people (honking is often intended to insult another drivers).
Japan – Don’t leave tips (provide the best service is normal in Japan, without waiting for the tips).
Mexico – Don’t get offended at locals’ jokes (they love to make jokes and they are really fun).
Norway – Don’t ask about going to church (this question would be rude to ask cause many Norwegians don’t go to church).
Turkey – Don’t show OK gesture cause it’s very offensive (this is an obscene gesture).
UK – Don’t ask how much people earn (this can make people uncomfortable).
Ireland – Don’t try to imitate Irish accent (because they don’t think have any accent at all).
Germany –
Don’t congratulate on birthday before the day (Germans believe that the
person may not live to the birthday if congratulated before).
Kenya – Don’t call people by name first (wait until someone has called you by the name first).
Chile – Don’t eat with your hands (here manners matter).
Singapore –
Don’t eat in public transport, don’t feed birds and don’t throw garbage
and don’t spit on the street (also here manners matter).
USA – Don’t forget to leave tips (it is obligatory and there are differences for any service you use).
Italy –
Don’t order cappuccino in restaurants (course you can do it, but the
waiter will be surprised, because Italians drink cappuccino for
breakfast).
Hungary – Don’t click glasses when toasting (it’s an old habit, but some people still prefer to avoid especially when drinking beer).
China – Don’t give clock or umbrella as a present (it is believed this bring bad luck).
Tuesday, 1 November 2016
Wednesday, 26 October 2016
If someone really misses you, they will give you a call. If someone really wants you, they will make the effort to tell you. If someone really cares about you, they will always try and show you. If they don't bother then they just aren't worth your time.
“I think... if it is true that
there are as many minds as there
are heads, then there are as many
kinds of love as there are hearts.”
― Leo Tolstoy
there are as many minds as there
are heads, then there are as many
kinds of love as there are hearts.”
― Leo Tolstoy
“No
one knows for certain how much impact they have on the lives of other
people. Oftentimes, we have no clue. Yet we push it just the same.”
― Jay Asher
― Jay Asher
Read It.. It Will Take Just 3 - 4 Mins..
Boy: I broke up with her.
His Best Friend: What happened?
Boy: She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?
Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..
His Best Friend: So,
you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her?
She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your
sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..
Boy: Oh..
Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with,
telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend: So,
you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because
she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..
Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..
Boy: I..
Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other
girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t
bitch about it.
His Best Friend: So,
you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She
thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and
hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only
her. I see..
Boy: Well, she..
His Best Friend: You
broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best
for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?
Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His Best Friend: You
lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You
didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.
SOMETIMES we don't realize we are losing a diamond while collecting stones..
"Guys don't let her go... she is the only one"...
Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.
Monday, 24 October 2016
The most important thing for our optimal health is getting a good night’s sleep.
However, many people deal with insomnia. The major causer of this problem is stress. Continuous stress can cause a plethora of negative ramifications on the body, including muscle fatique, elevated levels of anxiety and impairment.
However, many people deal with insomnia. The major causer of this problem is stress. Continuous stress can cause a plethora of negative ramifications on the body, including muscle fatique, elevated levels of anxiety and impairment.
Luckily for us, there is one technique that has been proved to be effective when it comes to sleeplessness or insomnia.
It’s called the “4-7-8” breathing trick.
How to Perform This Breathing Technique
Start
this tecnique by inhaling through your nose for a count of four
seconds, hold your breath for seven seconds, and then start exhaling
through your mouth for a count of 8 seconds. You can repeat this cycle
as many times as you need until you fall asleep.
Maybe
you will want to speed your breathing, but the key is to maintain the
4-7-8 brething pattern as long as possible in order for this technique
to work. This slows down your heart rate and will have you dozing off in
seconds.
Why it Works
According
to some studies, stress and anxiety have a great impact on how our
bodies function. For example, people who are anxious and stressed, they
may be chronically under-breathing, taking qucik, shallow breaths, when
they actually need to take slow, deep breaths in order to feel relaxed.
That’s
why this 4-7-8 pattern is very good, since when you are inhaling for 4
seconds, you are forcing yourself to take in more oxygen; by holding
your breath for 7 seconds, you are allowing the oxygen to spread
throughout your bloodstream and finaly, by exhaling for eight seconds,
you are expelling carbon dioxide steadily from your lungs.
With
this technique, your body is able to relax more fully, because it slows
your heart rate while increasing the levels of oxygen in your blood
stream.
Making it Work For You
This
amazing tecnique is spread from mouth to mouth by anxious bridesmaids
in the United States. However, Dr. Andrew Weil, educated in Harward, is
one of the foremost proponents of the 4-7-8 breathing tecnique.
Dr.
Weil doesn’t promise that this breathing tecnique will work for
everyone. However, the next time you are having a sleepless night, you
can try this free, all-natural and completely healthy way to put
yourself to sleep. Try to avoid the over-the-counter pills and use some
simple breathing exercises and you will see the difference that the
4-7-8 breathing method makes.
What Does Your Birthday Say About Your Love Life?
If you've always wondered if winter babies were "naughtier" than summer babies or vice versa, look no further.
Astrologer Suzie KerrWright created
this interesting article to find out the real story behind what your
birth month has to do with how you like to make love and your love life
overall.
Read on for yourself.
January: January-born people are going to be a little more conservative when it comes to actually hooking up with someone.
But
once they like someone, they'll be very persistent in making it happen.
Those born in January have one of the kinkiest signs. You wouldn't
think so, but they're right up there with November birthdays in terms of
being freaky in the bedroom.
February:
February-born people are adventurers. They have a lot of passion, but
you have to really work for it. Their heads are focused in causes and
the bigger picture, but you really have to try to get them to connect
emotionally. It's not that you can't connect emotionally, but you better
be prepared to work for it.
March:
March-born people love spending time in bed. Love for them is very
intense and bonded because they give their partner everything they have
and often take love making to new heights of spirituality.
April:
April-born people are very independent, so when they get involved with
someone, they give their all. Making love with an April-born person is
hot, intense, and very passionate because they're ruled by Mars, but
once the love making is over, it's really over. Their passion is huge
but they often get tired of people really quickly.
May:
May-born people make love to be comfortable and sensual and warm. They
love the act of love making itself. They want to make love on satin
sheets in a gorgeously decorated room or not at all.
June:
June-born people will want to try every position under the sun because
they want to know everything about everything. They're not as intense as
February-born people, but they're still intense. If you want someone to
talk dirty to you, they've got you covered. If you try having naughty
phone calls or message chats with them, they will love you forever.
July:
Making love with July-born people has to have a deep emotional
component. They have to feel safe with someone and once they do, they
will do anything to please their partner. They love to nurture people
and make sure they're satisfied and have everything they need.
August:
August-born people can either be extremely selfish or extremely
generous. They'll want to make sure their partner has everything, or
they'll sleep with someone and leave immediately. They hate being told
what to do in the bedroom, and their egos are easily bruised.
September:
They're passionate but they're always in control of their emotions, so
when it comes to making love, it'll take a lot to really get them to let
go. They won't immediately throw themselves into making love with
someone, but if they have an emotional component there, there's nothing
they won't do.
October:
They want to paint a romantic, passionate picture, and tell you how
it'll be and how you'll feel. Then once they tell you, they want to go
very slow and make the experience last. They'll really take their time
and linger and romance someone. October-born people might lack passion,
but they make up for that with spot-on courting that leads up to
romantic love making.
November:
November-born people are the epitome of what passionate love making is.
They need to possess their partners and want their partners to possess
them and will make that happen. They will try every act imaginable just
to say they've done it.
December:
December-born people are very creative in bed. They love to create
stories and role-play with partners. It's often hard to connect to them
in a deeper way, but they'll make love making fun every single time.
It
is easy to understand the emotions of a woman when she is in love. If
she loves you then you will always be on her mind every minute of the
day and she would love to stay connected to you all the time. If she
keeps calling you or texting you it doesn’t mean she has nothing else to
do in her life …just remember she is taking out time from her busy
schedule just to give her and time and attention to you. If she shows
jealousy towards other women in your life it means she just can’t share
your attention with anyone else. If she says sorry for no fault of hers
it means she just loves you and she doesn’t want to make you feel bad
for whatever you did to upset her. If she keeps forgiving you for your
mistakes and accepts you back in her life again and again it simply
means that she loves you and you are really important to her and she
treasure your relationship with her. If she is truly in love with you
she can go to any extent to show her love and affection and she wants
nothing more than to feel loved.
Are
you crazy about a woman in your office? Make a move quickly or she will
be gone, to another guy. There are many things guys can try on girls,
here are some of the psychological tricks that can help you catch the
love of your life:
1. Be mature
Women
tend to mature earlier than men and often complain about immaturity in
men. Be mature in your behavior and think before you speak. Be conscious
of your words and the way you say them. Don’t panic in tough
situations, act as a protective shield for the woman. She should know
how responsible you are regarding work, finances, family, and future.
Women love it when men care about their desires, likes, and dislikes.
Talking to a woman about herself is an easy way to make her crazy about
you.
2. Be active and energetic
Energy
takes many forms, for example flirting, butterflies in the stomach,
tension, or nervousness. Here we are referring to the energy that makes
you charming to a girl. The more active you are, the more she wants to
spend time with you. Be spontaneous, witty, make her laugh, touch her
lightly, engage in sexual innuendos, and be little naughty. These things
will make her think of you 24*7.
3. Lose the chain
A
woman is more likely to be mad about you if she thinks she can lose
you. Don’t spend all your time around her. Let her miss you and feel
your importance. Cancel dates sometimes and don’t always return phone
calls. This will make you confident and increase your importance. Show
her you are not addicted to her. However don’t overdo this. If you seem
to be playing games, this might work the other way for you. Maintain
some ego and attitude.
4. Be a romantic pal
This
is the best way to get a woman in. Women can be emotional and this is
what makes this trick work better than others. Get her emotions focused
on you. Write poetry for her, she is going to love it. Women love it
when men appreciate their beauty and jot down their feelings in a
pattern. If you are bad at writing poems, choose your favorite by
someone else and explain your emotions that way.
5. Be humorous
Women
love funny guys, make her laugh when you can. Use your sense of humor
all the time, this will make her enjoy your company and crave your
presence more. Act freely and unreserved so that she can comfortably
approach you. Be lively and don’t hesitate to talk about things with
her. Soon she will not be able to spend a day without you and will get
used to your humor.
6. Compliment her sincerely
Never
hesitate to compliment your girl. Women put a lot of effort into their
appearance and love to hear compliments. Make sure you are not doing it
too frequently, make it feel real and genuine. Complimenting her daily
about how beautiful she looks will make her used to it and she will get
bored. Compliment her decency, nature, and innocence. Talk about her
cuteness and smile.
7. When to say I Love You
This
is an important stage of a relationship, these 3 words are heavy and
meaningful, they should not be used in the beginning of a relationship.
As your relationship goes on, your emotions develop. It is suggested to
shoot these three words when your conversation with her is getting
emotional or sensual. Tell her how special she has become to you and how
happy you are with her. Remember to say these words in an emotional
conversation because if you use these words in the beginning, then she
won’t be able to feel your love for her. Have patience and wait for the
right time. Until then follow the above tricks and make her crave you.
Here’s some of the most common personality types that send many men running for the door!
The Baggage Lady
The Asphyxiator
“Daddy Issues” Lady
The Control Freak
She comes off like a mother figure, she’s emasculating and treats her man like an improvement project.
She comes off like a mother figure, she’s emasculating and treats her man like an improvement project.
She’s
still carrying baggage from previous relationships, she often starts
sentences with, “My last boyfriend/husband.” She’s driven by fear and
unresolved anger.
She
has no life outside of her man and expects him to feel the same. She’s
dropped all of her friends and no longer engages in any hobbies that are
not shared.
She
often nags when her partner wants to spend time with his friends, in
most cases that equals any amount of time that doesn’t include her.
She’s extremely clingy and needy.
She’s
looking for a man to solve all of her problems, and she’ll resent him
if he can’t wipe away all of her tears and kiss away all of her
boo-boos. She’s the one who expects the same standard of material
indulgence that daddy used to lavish on her. This variation of “daddy
issues” lady is emotionally immature and spoiled.
She
could also be the type who had a poor or a non-existent relationship
with her father so she’s constantly seeking attention outside the
relationship to fill a void.
The Gossip Girl
She’s
the woman who mistakes her boyfriend for one of her girlfriends. She
doesn’t understand that the type of intimacy she enjoys with her female
friends doesn’t translate well with men. She may expect him to be at her
beck and call with lots of emotional drama. She’s quick to point out
flaws in other women.
Mommy’s Little Darling
She’s
incapable of making a decision about anything without bringing her
mother’s opinion into the matter! She can often be found on the phone
with her mother whining about all the the intimate details of her
romantic relationship.
Often,
women like this have co-dependent relationships with their mothers, or
they were raised by narcissistic mothers who punished their daughter’s
attempts at personal individuality.
Thursday, 20 October 2016
- God said: Alright son its time to go.
- surprised the man responded: Now? So soon? I had a lot of plans...
- I'm sorry but its time to go.
- What do you have in that suitcase? the man asked.
- God answered: Your belongings.
- My belongings? you mean my things, my clothes, my money?
-God answered: Those things were not yours they belonged to the earth.
- Is it my memories? the man asked.
-God answered: those never belonged to you they belonged to Time
- Is it my talents?
-God answered: those were never yours they belonged to the circumstances.
- Is it my friends and family?
-God answered: I'm sorry they were never yours they belonged to the path.
- Is it my wife and son?
- God answered: They were never yours the belonged to your heart.
- Is it my body?
- God answered: that was never yours it belonged to the dust.
-Is it my soul?
God answered: No that is mine.
Full of fear, the man took the suitcase from god and opened it just to find out the suitcase was empty.
- With a tear coming down his cheek the man said: I never had anything???
-God answered: that is correct, every moment you lived were only for yours. You never lived for somebody who is not related to u in any way.
Moral:
Do something for other people who cant return the favour back to you. Life is just a moment. A moment that belongs to you.
-Live Now
-Live your life
- Don't forget to be happy and make others happy, as that is the only thing that matters.
- Material things and everything else that you fought for stay here.
-YOU CAN'T TAKE ANYTHING
Share this reflection with anyone you love or appreciate. Enjoy and let others Enjoy!
Brad Pitt About His Wife :
“My
wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work,
personal life, her failures and problems with children.
She
has lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She
got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman.
She
had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in
her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the
morning and got tired very quickly during the day.
Our
relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her
somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and
stopped taking care of herself.
She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…
But
then I decided to act on it. After all I’ve got the most beautiful
woman on the earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women
on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to
hug her shoulders.
I
began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised
her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived
just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all
themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our
mutual friends.
You
won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than
before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even
more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.
And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man.
If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it. ” – Brad Pitt, A Secret of Love.
I (nurse) took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation.
Asked him if he had a doctor’s appointment this morning somewhere else, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer Disease. As we talked, and I finished dressing his wound, I asked if she would be worried if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him. “And you are still going every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?” He smiled as he patted my hand and said. “She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.”
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, “That is the kind of love I want in my life.”
True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
Good friends are like stars…You don’t always see them, but you always know they’re there.
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